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Top Five Books Must Read to Boost Women Libido
 One third of American couples report inhibited sexual desire. What can these
couples do to increase their drive and derive all the benefits from having
regular, loving, intimate sexual relations? The answer is simple, really. Read
Erotic Romance.
Besides its entertainment value, reading Erotic Romance can titillate you, spark
your sexual arousal or even prolong it. It can trigger your imagination,
heighten your sexual desires, and increase intimacy. Erotic romance literature
has been a very hot topic over the course of the last couple of years, and
though openly erotic books may not quite have hit the mainstream in general,
many new readers are opening up to the genre. Here are four specific ways in
which a sexy and romantic read can boost your sex drive and diversify your
interests and desires.
Rekindle Interest
Sometimes you can simply lose interest in sex for a period of time, and it's
never quite clear why. This is perfectly normal, and can be perfectly acceptable
for a short time. But at some point it can feel like time to boost your libido
and rekindle sexual interest, and a great erotic romance can be just the ticket.
The emotions and imagery involved with erotic writing quite naturally excite
your innermost sexual desires in a totally non-threatening, no-pressure way, and
can get you back in the mood in no time.
Get New Ideas
Taking things a step further, you may also get a few new ideas from a romance
novel. Kinky erotica has opened a whole new world of light bondage or even heavy
kink for millions of readers, and this is merely one example. Whether your
reading inspires you to simply try new positions, or go shopping for a few fun
toys at Adam & Eve, new ideas and practices are always exciting, and can boost
your overall sex life.
Confront & Embrace Sexuality
Along similar lines, reading erotic literature forces you to confront and
embrace your sexuality. Whether or not you tend to be shy about these things,
reading is a nice way to privately - but thoroughly - open your mind to all
things sexual. It doesn't mean you have to go out and do everything your
favorite characters are doing - but you may be surprised at how much more
comfortable you feel with your own desires after reading about somebody else's,
especially when you're shy about what gets you hot (M/M lovin', ladies?)
Satisfy Desires
 Finally, and perhaps most simply, erotic literature can also satisfy sexual
desires quite actively. Sometimes, when the mind wanders, you simply need a
little bit of sexual fulfillment, but the time isn't always right for physical
satisfaction. Tease and please your mind with a bit of romance reading, and you
may find a different, but pleasurable sort of fulfillment. Or at least plenty of
fuel for the fire, for later.
Bibliotherapy is an academic term used to describe the amazingly beneficial (and
very delightful!) mind/body reactions that occur from reading erotic romantic
literature. In fact, sex therapists are advising their female patients to get
busy and start reading erotic romance!
Pamela Madsen wrote a terrific post about bibliotherapy at her blog, The
Fertility Advocate. She sites a scientific study that says 30-45 minutes of
reading erotic literature causes a chemical reaction in the female brain,
resulting in increased arousal.
I LOVE reading romantic erotica for the pure and simple joy it provides me�and
because it works fast and is reliable! Women are turned on by "emotional
stimulation." Men are aroused by what they see, women by what they feel. The
right stuff will get you so worked up you'll need to keep a high powered fan
handy!
Below are five hot reasons why women should read erotic romantic
literature:
1. Bring your sexy back, now! Reading sensational romantic erotica
engages the entire body, mind and soul. It puts sex front and center! You'll
soon forget your role of mother, wife, employer, or employee and shift into your
sexy, juicy, adventurous self.
Reading a satisfying love scene stirs a woman's emotions, which are directly
linked to her libido; so grab yourself an aphrodisiac 'erotic story', a cocktail
and enjoy some sensational emotional foreplay!
2. Heighten sexual pleasure with fantasy! Of course, you're not going to
engage in a three or four or five-way or have sex in a public place (or are
you?). However, reading about such outrageous behavior is a terrific way to stir
up all sorts of newfound naughtiness in the bedroom!
Exploring fantasies vicariously will elevate your pleasure and your partner's,
too. Use these stories to create or expand a zone of permission, fun and
lightness while learning to share and experience sensuality and pleasure on a
deeper, more primal level. Sex Video: How To Tell Your Partner About Your Sexual
Fantasies
3. I didn't know that! My favorite authors have done their homework.
These smart gals provide wonderful insights to healthy sexual communication
between partners. They also know how the female lizard brain works and have no
problem taking us there.
If you're wondering what might make you happy and really, really satisfied,
there's nothing like an erotic romantic story to give you some delicious new
ideas you'll want to try at home...right away!
4. Because it feels GOOD! For you fact-driven darlings:
Psychology Today states that women who read romance novels make love with their
partners 74% more often than women who don't. And according to The Journal of
Sex Research, when women fantasize frequently (as they do when they read erotic
novels), they have sex more often, have more fun in bed and engage in a wider
variety of erotic activities.
5. Happy Ever After!
While dodging bullets, saving the world, and having sinfully steamy adventures,
you'll always have a happy ending. This might seem like hedonist
escapism...because it is! The psychological benefits are real and valuable, and
the emotional gratification you receive will spill into your own relationship.
As Dr. Laura Berman states: "Erotic reading is an excellent way to get your
sensual juices flowing. It puts sex squarely on your brain and gives the
imagination a boost, too. It's perfect for getting in the mood before sex (with
yourself or your partner)."
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Dated 26 October 2013
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