by Mellara Gold
In a world that has been teaching us to measure our worth by productivity and progress, yoga offers a quieter reminder that we are already enough, just as we are, and especially as we continue to unfold. Our practice invites us home – not to an ideal self, but to the one who is breathing here now.
Photo Credit: Cecilia from https://yogaandphoto.com
Since arriving on the mat with physical and emotional injuries, I am realizing that self-love is not a destination – it is a daily practice. Even with Yoga becoming so popular, with around 11% of the total U.S population getting on their mats, our outer world still encourages constant striving. Not that there isn’t necessarily anything wrong with striving. From a yogic point of view, striving itself isn’t the problem; it’s when we need the outcome to define us. Like “if I succeed, then I am worthy.” Striving in the sense of showing up, practicing, refining, and committing is not only acceptable – it is necessary.
Yoga offers us a sacred pause, a return to the body, breath, and truth of who we are beneath expectation. More than movement, yoga is a living ritual of self-respect, self-listening, and inner devotion. So, when we step onto the mat, we are choosing to meet ourselves as we are, not as we think we should be. Self-love begins with presence, with each inhale inviting awareness, and each exhale softening any judgments. Through conscious breath, the nervous system calms, and the mind can release its grip on comparison and self-criticism. This is where love starts – not in perfection, but in attention.
Yoga teaches us to listen to our body’s own language. Within each asana and each day, it usually has a different story to tell. Some days it asks for strength, while other days it asks for stillness. Honoring these messages as radical acts of self-care feels essential. When we modify a pose, rest when needed, or choose gentleness over force, we affirm our worth. We learn that pushing through pain is not strength; self-compassion is. Over time, this embodied listening rewires how we relate to ourselves off the mat as well.
Heart-opening postures such as Cobra, Camel, or Bridge gently release stored tension and emotional armor. These shapes (asanas) are not about bending deeper; they are about creating space- physically and emotionally. As the chest lifts and the breath expands, many of us experience a sense of vulnerability, tenderness, or even emotion. I kind of feel like this is our heart remembering how to trust itself. And allowing these sensations without resistance is an act of love in and of itself.
Equally powerful are grounding poses like Child’s Pose, Forward Folds, and Savasana. These moments of surrender remind us that rest is not something we earn; it’s something that reminds us that we are love itself. When we permit ourselves to fully rest, we reclaim a sense of safety within ourselves. And Yoga philosophy reinforces this practice of self-love through principles such as ahimsa, non-violence. Practicing ahimsa means choosing kindness in thought, word, and action towards ourselves. On the mat, ahimsa looks like patience, and in life it looks like self-trust.
Through yoga, self-love becomes embodied wisdom and lives in how we breathe through discomfort, or when we completely stop if we are feeling pain in a pose. Ultimately, yoga helps us reconnect with our inherent worth. Reminding us that we do not need to earn love through achievement or appearance. Just by moving, breathing, and being present, we learn to appreciate our bodies for what they do, our minds for their resilience, and our hearts for their capacity to heal.
In the end, self-love becomes a gentle practice – one breath, one pose, and one moment of awareness
at a time.
All Photos: by Cecilia from https://yogaandphoto.com
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