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Top 10 to Revive your Sex Life After Baby
 Dropping
levels of
hormones, parenting insecurities and feelings of unattractiveness
can dry up desire post
child birth. You probably just don’t feel like yourself down
there. On average, couples resume
sexual relations by seven weeks and 90% are back to some sort of
love making routine by six months.
Sex
helps you life longer and better, whether the positive benefits stem
from your body or mind. Use sex as a tool, to improve your physical
appearance and outlook on life.
There are certain aspects about your body that have
changed due to pre and post-natal state. But don't forget there are many
health benefits associated with sex, including a longer life span,
better cardiovascular health, higher pain tolerance, improve immune
system and lower rate of depression.
 Feel
good about your body. In present time, we are raised to hide our
bodies' flaws whenever possible. This is something that should apply
only when you are out in public, and not in the privacy of the bedroom
with your committed lover. Take a heart, you just popped a kid out and
you need to give it some time. Your partner love's you regardless of the
shape your body is in.
 Revamp
your Night Wardrobe: Buy yourself some sexy underwear. Try simple
elegant satin nighties that look sexy but are able to cover that flab
up. Open your closet and identify the clothing that make you look
heavier than you actually are and set them aside permanently. Looking
terrible leads to feeling terrible and its plain inconsiderate to your
partner. Keep "sexy" in mind when you go shopping.
You can increase and prolong female sexual pleasure with the use of
Adam and Eve
women's sex toys. They has a wide selection to suit every possible need. If you're unsure of
what to choose, the Adam and Eve buyers' guide will help you pick the right sex toy. Satisfaction
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Get a new toy.
Take a couple's trip to a sex toy store like Adam and Eve. Talk about what turns you on and find a toy (or a few) that can compliment both of your desires. Use toys to explore new role playing, themes, or to simply find your G-spot.
  Indulge
in Foreplay: Go for walks or workout together...this is great
foreplay...enjoy...don't put to much pressure on yourself...take your
time getting back to that pre-baby body. According to the Kerry Mcclskey,
the author of The Ultimate Sex Diet "Encourage your partner to
make sex dates. Having sex dates can actually increase anticipation and
make the loving more thrilling. Alternate who plans the foreplay
activity and who chooses the sex position. Do a little teasing during
the hours leading up to the lovemaking."
 Try
New Poses: Add some new positions and sex toys to your bedroom
repertoire, and you'll be ready to light the fires and to speed the
night away! Ask for a sensual
massage while you describe a secret fantasy.
 Smell
Good: Make use of an effective deodorant and even some fragrant
soap, shower gel and (on the right occasions) perfumes. Don't forget to
moisturize the skin so that it looks supple and inviting.
  Take
out time to talk and discuss feelings- There is no doubt that, the
person with the higher sex drive feels rejected. But discussing your
feelings can make it into a problem you’re working on together. Discuss
your sexual fantasies or the activities you can do to heighten each
other's arousal and climax. Speak out the deep inner thoughts and
feelings.
 Light
Up the Mood: aromatic candles, turn your bedroom to a kind of sexy
haven and your sex life will jump back. Clear out any clutter that may
be distracting to the fun at hand, especially baby nappy and food.
 Get
in touch with your sexual self: When you get those precious moments
while baby’s sleeping, don’t clean up or nap. Consider masturbating
instead.
 Squeeze
out time for Intimacy
Remember there is always time for sex, cut out half an hour of
watching TV and updating Facebook for half an hour fun under the sheets.
You will actually feel more relaxed and mellow.
  Enjoy
the experience- the scent, the texture, the feel created while
making love.
Sex is not just sex. Its an important part of maintaining
intimacy with each other and is one of the most important glues that
cement your relationship.
Dated 12 June 2012
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